If your ‘this is how we do it’ keeps leaving women and children damaged, it is not tradition, it is sin wearing a costume. Here’s the standard, and the fix. Some of you are hiding behind tradition like it is a shield. ‘This is how men are.’ ‘This is how my daddy did it.’ ‘This is our culture.’ Listen, if the result is damage, it is not culture, it is crookedness with a better name. A symbolic image of a man dropping a cracked mask, representing stopping excuses and facing acc