There is a moment in Scripture that should stop all of us. Israel had just come back from battle. Four thousand soldiers were dead. The elders gathered. And they asked a question. But it was the wrong one. They said, “Why did the Lord allow us to lose today?” They never asked, “Where did we go wrong?” That question reveals the heart. People who want relief ask why . People who want relationship ask how . When life collapses, we often search for explanations instead of alignme